
Yes friends, the time we have all be awaiting is finally here, Ramadan 2011. (We were pretty sure yesterday was going to be the big day, but it was a fake out, the real start is TODAY). It's a bigger and better version of Ramadan 2010, it's going to be hotter and take up more of the month of August than last year! I also have a much better idea of what I am in for.
Last year I posted next-to-nothing about Ramadan because, to be frank, I was not in a good place AT ALL. I was not feeling like my chipper self and I didn't want to share my misery with the rest of the world wide web. This year, it's day one and I am feeling good, so alas, I will post.

Ramadan is the holiest month in Islam. Consisting of 30 days of fasting, praying and abstaining from "bad" things (i.e. smoking). From sun-up to sun-down Muslims fast from all food and drink as a way to show their faith to God and also to begin to understand what life is like for those less fortunate than themselves. Ramadan is a month filled with prayer, reflection and fellowship with family. The breaking of the fast is the most exciting part of the day. After the call-to-prayer, Moroccans gather in large family/ community groups and break fast together with traditional foods. It lasts for many hours and is definitely the most 'active' time of day! Before the sun rises again (around 4 am) another meal is held and then Moroccans go back to sleep. The other key component to Ramadan is alms, or the giving of money/ food/ ect to those less fortunate.
While Ramadan is a holy month for Muslims and a time that is very important and special in their yearly calendar!

A lot of volunteers gripe about Ramadan and all the challenges associated with living in a culture where for an entire month, people aren't eating or drinking water during the hottest time of the year. I am also guilty of this, to an extent. The reality is that while I support and love Moroccan culture, this is one facet that is a little harder to swallow.
I dislike Ramdan the same way I dislike Christmas (FYI, I love Christmas). I love the idea, the fellowship, the sharing of food and gifts. I love the happy and excited feeling that comes in the weeks leading up. I don't like the heightened stress, the short tempers and how some people can seemingly be at their worst. This doesn't mean I don't like Ramadan or Christmas, because I do, frankly I love and appreciate both. There are just limitations. We have to take the good with the bad.
Being in Morocco and experiencing Ramadan is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity that we in the Peace Corps get to do twice. I didn't fast last year and I am not planning on fasting this year either. Most people in the villages ask "Are you going to fast?" and to them, I usually make up some silly response to avoid flat out answering the question, "no". The reality is that most people I interact with have no concept of a place where people AREN'T fasting and that's okay. That's just their reality.

I choose not to fast because frankly, it's hard, it's hot and it is not a part of my religion and culture. I follow my Catholic/ Christian holidays, observe the sometimes silly rules of the church and do my part to follow my faith. I just see no immediate benefit for me to fast during this hot-as-heck month.
This post was not meant to discount those who choose to fast (either Muslim or not). Frankly, congrats to you all. It is a challenge I am not willing to accept!
This year a group of us have decided to beat the Ramadan challenges (i.e. heat) and head to Spain for some fun-in-the sun and Sangria. Just what the doctor ordered.
To all my American friends, I hope you are enjoying your heat wave, it's just a small taste of what life is like here in the Souss of Morocco, just minus the air conditioning.
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